Thursday, February 17, 2011

Questionnaire - NOT FINAL


II. Passive-Aggressive Parent-Child Relationship



Always
Often
Sometimes
Seldom
Often
1. Do your parents constantly take the responsibility of deciding for your everyday decisions?





2. Do your parents constantly maintain regular or non – regular endless rules for you?





3. Do you feel that your parents place excessive demands on your shoulders?





4. Do you feel that your parents embarrass you in front of others?





5. Do your parents keep finding even the little faults in everything that you do?





6. Do you contradict your parents every advise or instructions for you?





7. Do you think of consequences before doing an action?





8. Do you and your parents maintain an open relationship?





9. Do you discuss your problems with your parents?





10. Do you even follow your parents’ advices or instructions?






III. Passive-Aggressive Personality



Agree
Strongly
Agree
Undecided
Disagree
Strongly
Disagree
1. I listen to what others have to say.





2. I take criticisms negatively.





3. I am open for criticisms and suggestions by others.





4. I think first of the intentions before the criticisms.





5. I take other’s opinion seriously.





6. I maintain a good communication with others.





7. I take my time to consider other people’s feelings.





8. I get agitated easily.





9. I have an open-relationship with others.





10. I feel comfortable with other people’s presence.








IV. Other factors that influence the relationship


Yes
Undecided
No
1. Are you constantly watching TV dramas or movies about family relations?



2. Are you more comfortable sharing problems with your friends that with family members?



3. Are you forced to follow your parent’s beliefs and traditions?



4. Are you and your siblings getting along well?



5.



6. Are your parents happy or satisfied with your friends?



7. Do your parents always follow the “experts” from TV shows or magazines?



8.



9.



10.




 V. Development of Passive-Aggressive Relationship / Decision-making

1. Do you maintain a good family relation?
2. Do you spend some quality time with your parents?
3. Do your parents spend quality time with you?
4. Do you relate with your parents passively?
5. Do your parents relate to you aggressively?
6. Do you decide for yourself?
7. Do your parents give you the freedom to decide for yourself?
8. Do your parents decisions always contradict your?
9. Do you think of your parents reactions whenever you made a decision?
10. Do your parents force you to follow their decisions rather than yours?




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